1. Save on yourself

We understand that you have a husband, children, a dog and a house, and most of your salary goes to your family. You have to save, and first of all on yourself. Of course, your family and friends are your everything, and you don’t feel sorry for any money for them.

But! Dear ladies, you cannot live only for the sake of others, sometimes you need to please yourself. Every month, give yourself one small gift: cool shoes, a blouse, a skirt, or a trip to a beauty salon. We are sure that your family also wants to see their mother, wife, sister beautiful, stylish and happy.

2. Have short haircuts

The main problem Russian women! Who said, that short haircut looking younger? Okay, maybe it makes some people look younger, but on the contrary, it harms others. Now is the time to experiment with hairstyles: try a bob, then grow your hair longer, dye it red or get American highlights. Hair is the main decoration of a woman at absolutely any age, so why cut it right away?

In addition, do not forget about hair treatments: use thermal protection and leave-in treatments, make nourishing masks and regularly go to the hairdresser. With proper care, your hair will be your calling card for at least another 20 years.

3. Choose “old lady” things

Some women suddenly decide: “That’s it, youth is over, stop wearing tight jeans and beautiful tops, it’s time to buy a shapeless gray coat(Not no fashionable coat oversize), a dark floor-length skirt and a synthetic blouse with some unrealistically strange floral print. Now fashion is not for us, but only for young girls.”

We sincerely hope that you do not have such thoughts, but if you suddenly feel the urge to buy an absolutely absurd and clearly “pensioner” thing, immediately tell yourself: “Stop!” Remember how they say about a woman who has turned 45?

4. Choose things that are too youthful

The opposite situation also happens: start dressing as if you have recently turned twenty-something. T-shirts with stupid slogans, miniskirts, short sundresses, midriff-baring tops, leggings - these things will never make you look younger. On the contrary, they will highlight the discrepancy between your age and style.

Teenage clothing is a thing of the past: this needs to be realized and accepted. Believe me, you will look a hundred times better if you switch to more discreet (and this does not mean “boring”) and elegant outfits. You can follow all (or almost all) fashion trends and still remain a luxurious mature woman.

5. Don't follow trends

By the way, about trends. Another common mistake women make after 45 is not following fashion at all. It’s clear that you have virtually no time to read fashion portals and magazines (although you’re reading this post, right?), but despite this, try to at least occasionally flip through glossies or visit sites about fashion and style.

In addition, most trends have no “age restrictions”. For example, is this season's fashionable denim skirt suitable for any woman? Yes, only in your case it is better to choose a length to the knee or slightly lower. What about a long vest? Of course, it can and should be worn both at 15 and at 80. Shoes with fringes? Why not. Of course, you don't have to experiment with crop tops and thick-soled slip-ons, but let's say it again: fashion is for everyone.

5. Hide shortcomings, but do not emphasize advantages

Forget about shapeless and baggy clothes. If you think: “I’ll put on a robe and no one will notice my belly or large thighs,” then you are very mistaken. Shapeless clothes make you look like a bun or a large rectangle. You should be able to not only hide figure flaws, but also emphasize your strengths.

Hide your hips under full midi skirts, highlight your waist with a thick or thin belt, wear fitted jackets and blouses with V-necks. Create beautiful silhouettes and show off sexy curves. When you stop wearing bags, people around you will definitely notice how attractive and charming you are.

6. Don't wear heels

If 5 years ago you were running in 10-centimeter stilettos from home to work, from work to kindergarten, from kindergarten to the supermarket, from the supermarket to home, and now they have decided that heels are inconvenient, impractical and in general sneakers are a hundred times better, then things are bad.

We agree, wearing heels every day is not worth it: fortunately, there are cool loafers, brogues, ballet flats, flat boots, but you should still have several cool pairs of heels in your wardrobe. And it is advisable to wear them not only on major holidays. Choose shoes with stable heels made of genuine leather and wear them at least once a week (or better yet, more often)

7. Buy cheap underwear

It seems to us that any mature woman can afford 3-5 sets of good underwear. Yes, let there be not 10, not 20, but much fewer, but they will be ideal. The right underwear models and tightens your figure. And if you don’t have free funds for a Victoria’s Secret bra, look into the stores of more affordable, but no less high-quality brands (Bustier, Intimissimi).

9. Not studying age-related makeup techniques

Unfortunately, after 40 years, our skin changes: wrinkles appear, age spots appear, it becomes too dry or too oily. Great if you regularly visit a cosmetologist and fight the signs of aging modern methods, for example, take mesotherapy or photorejuvenation courses. But procedures cannot instantly turn you into a 20-year-old beauty, which means you need to mask age-related changes with the help of decorative cosmetics.

Consult a professional makeup artist: he will tell you what cosmetics to use at your age, how to apply them, what to add to your makeup bag, and what to remove forever. Learn to do the right makeup and you will look 10 years younger.

10. Launch your body

Let's imagine a typical case: a woman gave birth to three children, stopped taking care of her body, and not a trace remained of her slender figure. Now sports for her are only on TV. Guard! If you recognize yourself in this description, then it's time to think about it.

We are not encouraging you to go on a strict diet, drink only water and sign up for CrossFit classes. But neglecting your body and completely forgetting about sports is a crime against yourself. Fitness is movement, health, good mood. Find what you like: swimming pool, water aerobics, Nordic walking, yoga, zumba - whatever! Just two workouts a week - and your lazy girlfriends will envy your toned figure, and your body will have such energy that you can move mountains.

11. Forget about health

In continuation of the previous point. To be beautiful and healthy, a woman needs not only to exercise, but also to visit a doctor on time. Work, children, saving on yourself - you put off going to the hospital until the last minute, and hidden diseases that you do not treat will age you faster than poor nutrition and lack of physical activity.

Get tested, visit a therapist, dentist, gynecologist at least once a year and remember once and for all: beautiful woman- this is a healthy woman.

In your basic wardrobe, you can’t do without a classic cashmere jumper - coffee or beige, with a V-neck. Paired with jeans, this jumper will become an example of smart casual. It is also worth noting that beige color (which is especially recommended after the age of 45) has a beneficial effect on the complexion, unlike colors such as dark green or purple. The tricky thing about these noble flowers is that they can create shadows under the eyes and reveal redness and other skin imperfections.

In addition to beige, include in your color scheme any other pastel colors: creme brulee, pearl and olive. You shouldn't give up either bright colors, but their presence in your wardrobe should be strictly regulated. Also take note that the optimal set is considered to be a combination of no more than three colors that do not discord with the color type of appearance.

Let a powder jacket appear in your basic wardrobe. Finds such a jacket mutual language with almost any outfit, but especially with flowy silk trousers.

As for dresses that should only increase with age, the basic one should be a black or gray sheath dress middle length, which is also good in combination with a powder jacket. The length of such a dress should be slightly above or slightly below the knee. How to choose the perfect dress.

Has versatility and pantsuit, trousers from which can be worn with white or cream color silk shirt (let there be more than one in your wardrobe White shirt). A fitted jacket will go perfectly with a pencil skirt or jeans.

Jeans are certainly suitable for all ages, but only if they are a classic model, dark blue, almost black. After forty, choose jeans with a medium or high rise. Leggings, skinny jeans, baggy jeans and low-waist jeans are not worthy of your age. How to choose jeans according to your body type,

All kinds of combinations of blouses (tops) with a jacket or cardigan will become very feminine and elegant. This is where an elegant strap will come in handy more than ever, as it will highlight your waistline.

Each of the above sets is self-sufficient, but if desired, any of them can be supplemented with a stole with a floral print or a classic silk scarf 70x70 in a bright color.

What not to wear

Anything that is “mini” is excluded from a mature woman’s wardrobe, even if you have Beautiful legs. Be careful with your neckline (both front and back). Exclude everything that can be attributed to boudoir style: transparent blouses (with bows or ruffles), as well as things with sparkles and black lace, tiger and leopard prints. To avoid awkward situations, give up pink blouses and T-shirts with children's drawings, short tops. Any things that reveal the stomach are strictly prohibited - this is one of those points that does not tolerate any objections.

Shoes and jewelry

Shoes are a must in your wardrobe beige colour and classic black pumps, and for long shopping trips - moccasins. Remember that at a certain age you can tell absolutely everything from a woman’s shoes, so choose your shoes with due care.

Avoid cheap jewelry and artificial diamonds, but don’t overload yourself with jewelry. One but true stroke will be enough: for example, to emphasize long neck earrings or pearl necklace.

At forty everything just begins, and at forty-five the second youth comes - best time to look at yourself in a new way and reconsider your wardrobe. Remember that a miniskirt will not make you younger and love yourself at any age!

Tanya Shchelkanogova, site editor

How to dress if you are already a little over 40? These wonderful women know and will advise.

Julianne Moore

We are already accustomed to the way Julianne Moore looks on the red carpet: she usually chooses chic dresses to the floor with dazzling shimmers of fabric and sequins. How does the actress dress? ordinary life? As you can see, Julianna prefers comfortable casual wear: skinny trousers, jeans, mid-heeled shoes and sneakers. At the same time, the actress does not look pretentious, but her outfits can never be called boring or old-fashioned. In all her looks there is always some original accent: be it a military-style print or rolled up sleeves on an oversize coat.

What useful things can women over 45 learn from Julianne Moore’s images?

Firstly, the actress only wears muted shades: black, blue, beige, white, gray. This does not mean that bright colors are prohibited, just calm shades look a little more advantageous and respectable. Secondly, Julianne's favorite thing is classic basics, for example, a black blazer or a beige knee-length coat. These things do not go out of fashion, and they can and should be worn by women of any age.

Cate Blanchett

Cate Blanchett is one of the few celebrities whose everyday looks can be looked at all day, admired, remembered and repeated. And, unlike Julianne Moore, basic wardrobe- this is not for her. Of course, she also loves blazers and comfortable trousers, but they can’t be called basic.

For example, look at the top with a huge orange flower or green boots. The actress doesn't just place accents, Kate believes that bright details- this is a mandatory attribute of any outfit. If you're wearing black, at least carry a purple bag. And this is the first thing we must learn from this star. And yet, despite the fact that the actress has a wonderful figure, she cannot be seen in too tight clothes. She likes fitted dresses and trousers, but not tight ones. And this makes her images especially elegant. This is another great tip for all women over 45.

Cindy Crawford

Luxurious Cindy at 50 looks the same as she did 20 years ago: still the same long legs and a flirtatious smile. And we, like 20 years ago, want to see her in mini dresses or dresses with huge slit. Alas, Cindy remains like this only at social events, but in everyday life she is just a beautiful woman who does not pretend to be a celebrity and tries to be the same as everyone else.

However, there is nothing wrong with this, and, of course, all women have something to learn from this legendary beauty. Firstly, Cindy loves jeans very much and wears them almost constantly. So, lesson #1 from Cindy - buy yourself at least two pairs of cool and perfectly fitting jeans. Let's assume that some are straight, and the second are flares.

Lesson #2 from Sydney: If you truly love your hairstyle and hair color, then there is no point in inventing something new. The model has never experimented with hair: All her life she wore light curls just below her shoulders. And did this hairstyle ever let her down? It seems to us that this is just another component of Cindy's eternal youth.

Sharon Stone

To remain an unreal beauty and the dream of millions of men at 58 years old? Easily! The wonderful Sharon Stone proves this to us. For everyday looks, Sharon chooses very simple and 100% classic items. She does not try to appear younger, the main thing for her is comfort, although style and fashion have never faded into the background. There was not a single time (at least not caught by the paparazzi) when fans could exclaim “Sharon, what are you wearing!”

Sharon, like Julianne Moore, prefers muted tones, and one of her favorite colors is white. White blouse, white coat, white trousers - Sharon knows that this noble color is ideal for women of her age. White is refreshing and never seems boring or annoying, especially when mixed with black tones.

What else do we love about Sharon Stone's style? Actress loves dresses that emphasize her seductive shape, but do not show off too much. Take a look at this blue dress: wide neckline, correct length, deep color. Perhaps this the best option for women over 45.

Sarah Jessica Parker

Sarah herself does not consider herself a style icon, but we know that her dressing skills are the envy of thousands of fashionistas from all over the world. Of course, most associate Sarah with the heroine of the series “Sex in big city" Carrie Bradshaw, but she no longer needs the help of Patricia Field (the series' chief stylist) to create an impeccable look. However, in real life star dresses in casual style, but at the same time never forgets about the main motto of fashionistas: “mix and match” (mix and combine).

You look at Sarah’s everyday images, and the question arises in your head: “It seems so simple, but why is it so cool?” It seems to us that the fact is that the actress has no prejudices about her age. She wears the same clothes that girls aged 18–25 wear, but with one difference: Sarah never does not expose his body more than required. She can wear boyfriend jeans, a sweatshirt with a pro-ocean slogan, high-top sneakers or pink tights, and not worry about what others think of her. She creates original, free and relaxed images, which at the same time turn out to be very stylish.

Despite her love of comfort, Sarah does not betray his passion for high-heeled shoes. Yes, she is often seen in sneakers, but no less often in heels. Maybe because a woman in heels always feels more attractive and desirable? One thing is clear: women of all ages need to have a few chic, yet comfortable pairs of heels in their wardrobe.

Jennifer Lopez

Definitely the sexiest beauty on our list. But Jen is already 47 years old! One thing is certain about her: Jennifer adores her figure and knows that she cannot hide her gorgeous form from her fans. However, in real life, the singer chooses rather modest outfits (unlike her stage images).

Yes, if you happen to meet Jen on the street (what if?), she will not be wearing a “naked dress” or a miniskirt, but this does not mean that the singer is trying to hide all her advantages. Vice versa, she skillfully emphasizes strengths of his figure and hides his weaknesses. For example, she wears flared jeans with heels - this combination elongates the silhouette and disguises the star’s large hips. Or she chooses a wrap dress: such a dress is also visually slimming, highlights the waist and beautiful legs, but hides the hips.

Of course, Jennifer knows what to wear to create the perfect silhouette hourglass» . She can often be seen in jackets, blouses, and dresses with voluminous shoulders. Thus, it balances the hips and shoulders, and the figure becomes more proportional. So, let's take note of two main ideas from JLo: firstly, we always remember the proportions, and secondly, the advantages of our body.

Gwen Stefani

Another star who you will definitely never give 47 years old. But the fact is a fact, Gwen is no longer a young girl, but this is only according to her passport, and in real life she practically does not change: still the same glam rock style, still the same red lipstick, still the same perky look.

Gwen is as bright in everyday life as she is on stage. She loves red and black, has no plans to say goodbye to youthful things and always wears intricate sunglasses.

What can you take from the singer’s style? Firstly, her spontaneity, her ability to combine the incongruous. Of course, to dress like Gwen, you need to have Gwen's taste, but still, she is a clear example of the fact that after 45 years you don't need to turn into an "old lady." Trends are not a taboo for a mature woman, you just need to wisely include them in your wardrobe. For example, in last season Jumpsuits and suits were popular. Gwen happily wears both, while in this outfit she looks very stylish and does not resemble a teenage girl.

Oh yes, let's remember again business card Gwen - red lipstick. She never cheats on her anywhere. The singer says that, as a matter of principle, she does not use the services of makeup artists and applies makeup herself. So, another secret from Gwen Stefani: learn to paint your face so that no one will guess your age.

Anna Wintour

This is definitely someone worth following as an example, and not only for older women, but also for young girls. Style icon, permanent editor of American Vogue Anna Wintour. Naturally, she only dresses in the most expensive brands, but that doesn't mean we can't borrow her fashion tips.

Anna knows that she is not 25 years old, so most often she can be seen in feminine dresses or midi-length skirts. Just below the knee- this is the length women should choose after 45 years. She loves prints, but she doesn’t mix them, but always combines them with plain things.

A distinctive feature of Anna's style is her commitment to the same things. For years now, she has been wearing a bob hairstyle, Chanel sunglasses, beige Manolo Blahnik shoes and a crystal necklace around her neck. You won't believe it, but she wears sandals flesh-colored since the 90s! No, the pairs are different, only the model does not change. What can I say? Try to find your style and your things. And you can pay a little for these things more money than for everything else.

Which star's style do you like?

How to dress after 45 and still look good? The fact is that some women, upon reaching this age, stop following fashion and thinking about style, giving up on everything. Others, on the contrary, wear everything that fashion offers for twenty-year-olds.

Both of them are doing the wrong thing. Age is not a reason to stop taking care of yourself; you just need to be a little more thoughtful in choosing your wardrobe.

Let's see what advice stylists give so that a woman, regardless of the number in her passport, looks gorgeous and stylish.

How to dress – wear comfortable, comfortable clothes

To look perfect, you need to choose clothes that are comfortable for you, of course, this does not mean a tracksuit or robe. Choose outfits that make you feel comfortable in them. You deserve to have clothes that don’t pinch anywhere or constrict anything.

Give up too tight skirts and trousers, as well as anything tightly fitting, even if you have kept perfect figure. When making a purchase, walk through it a few steps, new outfit should not hinder movement, but fit perfectly according to your figure, then you will always be in a good mood.

Choose the right length

Avoid minis completely - after 30-35 they look quite cheesy on women. This may look extravagant from the stage, and even then, not everyone will agree with it. A woman after 40 years old should look elegant and impeccable, so as not to cause condescending smiles from young ladies behind her back.

The ideal length for you starts from the middle of the knee. Below - for God's sake, above - no, no.

Decide for yourself what to emphasize and what to hide

Look at yourself in the mirror with a critical eye, as if from the outside. Surely you will see that some shortcomings have appeared. After that, look in the same mirror, but with love, and note all your advantages, there are probably many of them, and you will immediately understand how to dress correctly.

From now on, make it a rule to emphasize only the advantages and, as it were, to retouch the disadvantages. We know about them, but others don’t necessarily need to.

For example, if your calves are beautiful, the skirt should be from the middle of the knee; if they are full, or vice versa, too thin, make the length to the middle of the ankle.

Stick to calm tones

Surely you have long known what colors suit you. Choose the calmest ones, now focus only on them. For example, peach (what to wear it with -), light gray or pale blue will take off several of your years in an instant, but purple or bright yellow, on the contrary, will add it.

Just don’t get hung up on one color, there are probably more. Your color scheme is quite extensive: beige, all shades of white, some shades of brown, blue and blue. See how coral (more details) suits you, apricot, olive - you will definitely like something. And accessories can be bright - a handbag, shoes, a bracelet, a belt or a scarf.

Remove shapeless items from your wardrobe

Remember, we said above that now your credo is discreet elegance. Therefore, remove all shapeless robes, wide pants and dull stretched sweaters from your wardrobe.

Your items should be exactly the right size, not tight, but semi-fitted. Say a decisive “no” to shapeless clothes!

Choose prints carefully

You don’t have to give them up completely, just choose them more carefully. Do not allow pretentious and flashy things into your wardrobe.

Even if it's geometric figures, flowers or abstract patterns, choose something calm and not childish. Leave the cats, peeing boys and terrible red lips to others.

Don't forget about shoes

Maybe, high heel– this is not your choice, even if you used to wear them with pleasure. But in general, you shouldn’t give up heels. Buy yourself a pair or two of comfortable, stable pumps in a neutral color and with medium heels.

Don't buy yourself clothes only in black or other dark colors. It’s better to choose a demi-season semi-fitted coat (how to choose a coat -) - if it is light, your image will be close to ideal.

Jewelry - in moderation

Don't get carried away with gold rings on all your fingers, it's vulgar. It’s better to have one or two original rings; at worst, “walk” them one by one, even if you have to go to a party.

And for every day, choose calm jewelry.

Choose your accessories carefully

Don’t give up on accessories (see), just select them more carefully. For handbags, purchase small or medium clutches. By the way, they can be bright, like beads, a hat, a scarf and shoes. Know how to wear them correctly and with taste, and your image will immediately shine with originality.

Remember that you deserve only quality things

Obviously, you have long understood how to dress - even if there are not so many things, they must be of high quality. Tacky blouses and trousers with threads sticking out, sold at sales, are clearly not for you.

A thing that will “live” one single season will not interest you. Buy only quality products and enjoy them for several years.

Stick to the simplicity and elegance of a real lady

In order not to be mistaken, choose for yourself a timeless classic, feminine and discreet, never going out of fashion. Let very young ladies experiment on themselves, but you will arm yourself with simplicity and good taste.

Arm yourself with tips on how to dress at your age, love yourself for who you are - elegant and wise, and everyone around you will admire you.